Hi! I’m José Luis and maybe we could go on a date!

Some basics about me:

Twitter: @ArtirKel Website: https://nintil.com

What am I looking for?

The kind of person that would read through this profile and want to contact me :-) . Some heuristics: female, around same age or younger than me, based in California, probably more extroverted than me.

I am the kind of person that moves a relationship from friend→short term→long term rather than skipping the friendship stage. I need some level of connection first! So let’s hang out and then let’s decide to call it a date or not afterwards if it felt like a date.

You should probably just contact me if you want to meet irl even if you are not 100% sure if you want to go for a date.

Does this sound too vague? Maybe we meet and we just get dinner. Maybe we end up getting married and having kids. The future is full of possibility and I don’t like forcing one or another into being but letting things developing gently into place.

Here’s a more (and less vague) list of things I’m looking for in a partner:

  1. Reliability (Being on time, keeping promises, being trustworthy in general)
  2. Similar sense of humor/playfulness (Or in particular that we make each other laugh 🙂
  3. Willingness to try new things (Maybe trying skiing or cooking something together or anything that we come across)
  4. Broadly compatible lifestyle (similar sleep schedule [early birds hi!], similar geographical location, sufficiently overlapping friendgroup, similar level of sociality)
  5. Playing an active role in the relationship (Proposing things to do, keeping conversations warm; as opposed to me initiating all interactions)
  6. Having a job (self explanatory) that you are proud of (you shouldn't think of, or describe yourself as “I do boring stuff at X”)
    1. Extra points if you find starting a company together an amazing idea